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Stars in the Margins: C.S. Lewis Quotes from ‘The Four Loves’

C.S. Lewis The Four LovesC.S. Lewis continues to be one of my favorite authors, but I’d be lying if I said The Four Loves ranked high on my list. To be perfectly honest it was far and away the most difficult work I’ve ever read by Lewis. I found the introduction arduous, which (admittedly) probably says more about the reader than the author. Likewise, I found chapter 1 more than a little laborious. Thankfully, I felt there was a a marked improvement beginning in chapter 2. Overall it’s definitively not my favorite Lewis book, but keep that in perspective. It’s because I love Lewis so much. Below are the “stars in the margins,” which I put next to quotes I want to share. There are 28. They’re listed below.

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Am I a Feminist? That Depends on More Than the Mere Definition.

Am I a feminist? For starters let’s define the term. Read more


Miniblog #359: University Abbey’s Policy Concerning Conflicting Political Beliefs

I’d like to make something clear. University Abbey is a “haven for thoughtful faith where doubt is welcome.” That’s our new tagline. We intentionally welcome people of (nearly) all political persuasion, whether conservative or progressive, libertarian or socialist. Read more

Miniblog #358: Stop Saying the Current President Is the Worst Ever

Obama is not the worst president in our country’s history.
W. was not the worst president in our country’s history.
Clinton was not the worst president in this country’s history.
H.W. Bush was not the worst president in our country’s history.
Reagan was not the worst president in this country’s history. Read more


My Life Philosophy: Speak Up, Step Up (Miniblog #357)

I’m a big ol’ fan of people being vocal about their ideas, concerns, suggestions, and the like. Yet apathy is not an option. One of my life philosophies is that if you speak up, you’d also better step up. It’s like an algebra equation. The two sides had better match (or at least be aspiring to match). Two examples will illustrate the point. Read more


Miniblog #356: In the Words of Tupac Shakur, ACNA, I Ain’t Mad at Cha

In 1996 Tupac Shakur released “I Ain’t Mad at Cha.” It’s a song about his peers who made decisions that set them on different paths. Tupac understood why they chose what they did. In the lyrics he expresses harboring no ill will toward them. Looking back on the arc of his life and his impending death, I see it as a song that both reflected and created healing.11.Though they inhabited separate worlds, he’d come to peace with their separation. I know it’s more than a little odd to reference Tupac in the context of my feelings about the Anglican Church in North America, but that’s exactly how I feel. Yet I’d like to dig into this on a meta-level. Read more


My Five Thoughts on the Supreme Court’s Hobby Lobby Decision

At least a dozen times already I’ve been asked what I think about the Supreme Court’s Hobby Lobby decision. It seems the progressives are irate, the conservatives are euphoric, and there’s not much of a moderate outlook being voiced. At least that’s been my experience. For the time being, I have five brief thoughts: Read more


Sixth Annual “Debunking the Fourth”: Top 10 Unsightly Facts about the American Revolution


W.R. Inge once wrote, “A nation is a society united by a delusion about its ancestry and a common fear of its neighbors.”1.This is the sixth annual, reformatted “Debunking the Fourth” post. From the title alone it’s clear that the content is provocative. Mere shock value has never been my intention, though. Rather, my aim is the relentless pursuit of truth as a means of worshiping and honoring God. As a student of history, I’ve heard and read a lot of things that don’t comport with the conservative, pro-America stance to which so many of my fellow evangelicals hold. I love these people and count many of them as dear friends, family, and mentors. That, and not a desire to be argumentative, is why I’m worried about the widespread misunderstanding of the historical realities surrounding the American Revolution. Whether willful or ignorant, the propagation of these erroneous claims is not only deceptive, but has real potential to damage our witness. Since we Christians profess to be people of the truth, it follows that there are times in which we need to be confronted by unpleasant facts that will force us to reconsider our beliefs, opinions, perspectives, and ways of thinking. There have been plenty of times I’ve been in this position, and I can definitively say that I’m a better man and Christian for it. My hope is that the content below will positively challenge people’s perceptions of our country’s origins and that we would all worship our God through the cultivation of our minds. One need look no further than the American Revolution to see that this claim has merit. This week a lot of American Christians are experiencing a patriotic fervor that’s premised upon historical falsehoods concerning our country’s origin. Let’s correct some of those misconceptions, shedding light on the Top 10 most unsightly facts that most of these folks haven’t heard, or refuse to acknowledge, about our country’s war for independence: Read more


Skepticism Toward Frequent Appeals to Direct Revelation from God

I find myself intensely skeptical of anyone who appeals to direct, personal revelation from God on a frequent basis. That includes laity and clergy alike. In my opinion, phrases like “God told me”, “the Spirit placed it on my heart”, and “I received a word from the Lord” absolutely have their place in the christian life.11.This is because I wholeheartedly believe in such active, tangible work by the Holy Spirit. Yet continual appeal to them gives me pause. Read more


Miniblog #355: Reconsidering the Spiritual-Psychological Dynamics of Space

Over the past several years I’ve been slowly reconsidering the spirituality of space. Back in my fundamentalist, Pentecostal days I was imbued with a strong belief in it. The spiritual realm was overt and tangible. I was taught to ground my faith in, and focus my energy on, the battles of spiritual warfare: good vs. evil, angels vs. demons, Christians vs. pagans, etc. Read more


Miniblog #354: Confessing a Major Mistake from My First Year as UA’s Campus Pastor

Ministry. I don’t like that word–or at least that form of the word. It’s because I’ve heard it used carelessly too many times. It always stresses me out. It makes me think of the Marthas of the world who are continually busy doing stuff but seldom just spend time with people. Especially when people use the definite article in front of it (“the ministry”), I think of busybodies who are continually planning for the future and struggle to simply be present in the moment. I do like the word “minister,” though. Read more

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Leaving the Timberwolves, Joining the Spurs: The 12 Reasons for My Fan Conversion

Well, this is difficult and emotional, but it’s official. I’m removing my fan commitment to the Minnesota Timberwolves and pledging it to the San Antonio Spurs. The T-Wolves will always have a warm place in my heart, but I’m now a Spurs fan. Here are the 12 reasons why: Read more

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Miniblog #253: Reflections on Power Dynamics, Blogging, Fear, and the Internet

Whenever I tell someone I’m a blogger, I make a point of carefully observing their verbal and non-verbal response. In my experience, there are three general outlooks. Read more


People Keep Telling Me to Exercise Restraint, But I Don’t Think That’s the Biblical Model

This evening I sent the following email to a friend and mentor who I highly respect. I’d be curious whether my readers agree or disagree with my thesis. Thoughtful feedback is welcome in the comment section. Read more


Stars in the Margins: Anne Morrow Lindbergh Quotes from ‘Gift from the Sea’

Gift from the SeaAnne Morrow Lindbergh’s 1955 book, Gift from the Sea, is written by a woman and to women. Having just read it, I have five thoughts about that. First, there have always been ways in which I don’t fit the mold of the typical American dude. I tend to be intensely self-aware and am quite in touch with my feelings, which experience suggests separates me from most of my male peers. Second, in my opinion men would do well to learn more from women. There are many things to be gleaned that simply are not naturally on our radar. Third, American society has definitely changed since the mid-’50s. Thankfully it seems men are more receptive to books like this than they were in the past. Fourth, men would do well to read books like this just to understand. Not to argue about which way is best, but simply to understand where women are coming from. Lastly, while the book is certainly written from a more feminine perspective, I for one didn’t find it overly emotive. The author did a terrific job of seamlessly weaving together the emotional life, the contemplative life, the spiritual life, and the behavioral life. All that being said, the quotes below are the “stars in the margins.” That means they were my favorite quotes that I wanted to share. Read more


Miniblog #352: A Condemnation of “Homeless Spikes” and the Ruthless Spirit Behind Them

As University Abbey’s campus pastor I’ve intentioned to provide spiritual formation that has a strong social conscience. That’s why our Evening Prayer liturgy has specific concern for the less fortunate. Together we pray, “Provide for the homeless, the hungry, and the destitute.” Read more

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Miniblog #351: University Abbey Has Been God’s Means of Grace in My Life

University Abbey aspires to be “a grace-filled community where no question is off-limits and civility is the norm.” As its campus pastor, I’ve made a concerted (albeit imperfect) effort to help cultivate that “grace-filled” culture. Read more


Good News & Reflections: Doctors Cannot Find Cancer in My Dad (Miniblog #350)

This past winter and spring were rough. Read more


Honesty or Forgiveness: Choosing Between Atheism and Dispensationalism


Stars in the Margins: Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s ‘Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community’

Bonhoeffer Life TogetherI have a love-hate relationship with Dietrich Bonhoeffer. When I agree with him, I passionately agree with him. When I disagree with him, I passionately disagree with him. He offers readers a vast wealth of spiritual wisdom and practical counsel. That’s especially the case if you consider his short years. At the same time, he’s definitely far more pious than I am and more strongly influenced by 17th century Pietism. We also part ways in that Bonhoeffer was a biblicist whereas I definitely am not. I love Scripture and firmly believe in continual biblical saturation, but the Bible is not the be-all, end-all of the christian life. As believers we must never go far from Scripture, but neither should we dwell exclusively on Scripture. In my opinion, Bonhoeffer commits the common evangelical error of nearly treating God’s Word like the fourth person of the Trinity. Again, it’s a love-hate thing. That being said, the quotes below are those I love in Bonhoeffer’s Life Together: The Classic Exploration of Christian Community. Read more

Miniblog #349: Theology at Its Very Worst and Its Very Best

From the behavior I’ve witnessed as well as the history I’ve studied, it seems to me there are three general tendencies for how Christians deal with adiaphora. Read more

Stars in the Margins: Philip Yancey Quotes from ‘What’s So Amazing About Grace?’

Yancey Grace

As a ridiculously slow reader, I try to get the most out of what I am able to read. Over the years I’ve found I retain content better when I write in my books, so my method is to put brackets around portions I find insightful or particularly well-written and stars in the margins beside quotes I want to share. Below are my stars in the margins for Philip Yancey’s 1998 book, What’s So Amazing About Grace? For those who’ve not read him, Yancey has an extraordinary skill in offering profound insights in an accessible way. This whole book is a prime example, which is why I highly recommend it to just about every Christian. Read more


Miniblog #348: With Boundaries in Place, I’m Finally Upgrading to a Smartphone

There are numerous reasons I’ve stuck with my dumb phone years into the smartphone revolution. Not only are flip phones smaller, cheaper, more durable, easier to use, immune to butt dials, and have better battery life, they effectively inhibit my generation’s phone addiction. I simply don’t want to be the stereotypical Millennial who reaches for his or her phone the first thing after waking and the last thing before bed as well as chronically checking it during all conscious hours.11.I’ve read troubling scientific reports that confirmed my hunch that such habits actually rewire the brain, over the long-term reducing attention span and impairing critical thinking among other things. It ain’t a pretty picture. Read more

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Miniblog #347: The Past Must Be Remembered Before It Can Be Overcome

I’ve recently been reading Philip Yancey’s highly recommended book, What’s So Amazing About Grace? In it Yancey suggests, “The past must be remembered before it can be overcome.” I heartily agree. Forgiveness can be given by the wronged without the offender’s admission of wrongdoing, but make no mistake. There can be no reconciliation between the two without that admission. Read more


What on Earth Is “Eastern Anapiscopanglican Christianity”?

I’ve always loved this quote from The Simpsons:

The one true church: the Western Branch of American, Reformed Presbylutheranism. – Reverend Timothy Lovejoy

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Miniblog #346: Appealing to Subjectivity Is Taking the Easy Way Out

My primary concern the vast majority of the time is not being right, building unity, or advancing a cause. All things being equal, my primary concern is usually the truth. Read more

Following Christ: The Paradox of Self-Criticism & Self-Grace (Miniblog #345)

One of of my favorite quotes comes from Richard Mouw. He suggests, “Too often in life we proceed with a hermeneutic of self-assuredness and criticism of those for whom we disagree rather than a hermeneutic of self-criticism and grace for others.” This philosophy is near and dear to my heart. Over the years I’ve learned to put my implicit trust only in those who consistently exhibit a spirit of self-criticism and grace toward others. Read more


Chronologically Listened Through The Beatles’ 12 Albums, Then Ranked ‘Em

I’ve listened to all The Beatles’ albums but had never gone through them in a comparative fashion that explored their artistic development. So, I decided to remedy the problem. Over the past three days I chronologically listened through the core catalogue of the original 12 albums released in their native UK, then I ranked ’em. As one who most certainly is not a musical connoisseur, my ranking has little to do with artistic originality, production value, cultural significance, or the like. My single criterion was this: What did I enjoy listening to the most? In the videos below I’ve tried to provide the vinyl version whenever possible because, let’s face it, they sound better that way. Read more

Miniblog #344: Why I No Longer Default to Addressing Priests as “Father”

In the historic traditions of Eastern Orthodoxy, Roman Catholicism, and Anglicanism, the priest is ordinarily addressed with the title “Father.” So, for example, “Fr. John” or “Fr. Doe.” The term is one of respect, speaking to the man’s role in providing shepherding as a spiritual father. Over the past couple years, however, I’ve undergone a substantial change in perspective. Read more

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Reasonable Proposal: Pay Student-Athletes or Don’t Use Their Likeness (Miniblog #343)

To use a 1992 Mighty Ducks reference, the NCAA is a bunch of cake-eaters. It’s now approaching $1,000,000,000 per year in revenue. Keep in mind that figure doesn’t include the revenue made by academic conferences and individual universities. This helps explain why the Bleacher Report is identifying the fair market value of college football players and basketball players at $178,000 and $375,000 per year, respectively. Meanwhile, just yesterday the NCAA announced that it’s allowing unlimited meals and snacks to ensure student-athletes aren’t going to bed hungry. This while its president, Mark Emmert, is paid nearly $1,600,000 annually. Gee, thanks for your abundant generosity. Read more

Miniblog #342: Helping Baby Boomers Understand How They’re Now Perceived

Dear Baby Boomers,

Let’s get something straight right away. The purpose of this post isn’t to create nor further any generational conflict. Quite the opposite. The purpose is to facilitate understanding. In fact, I for one have long felt like a man born out of time. There are many ways in which I resonate more with your Baby Boomer generation than I do my own Millennial generation.11.There’s a reason I’ve studied so much of that period of American history, love Forrest Gump, The Wonder Years is one of my all-time favorite TV shows, and I’ve listened to so much ’60s music. Read more

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Miniblog #341: A Healthy Christian Community Will Inevitably Challenge the Business Model

I don’t think all christian community needs to be spontaneous. I do think removing some elements of American busyness and programitization in order to simply spend lots of time with people is indispensable to healthy christian community. It’s Jesus’ model of discipleship and I don’t think there’s any substitute in any cultural context.11.It’s one of those transcendent human elements that’s true in every culture. Human beings are social creatures. It’s how we’re hard-wired. There’s no substitute. Read more


Miniblog #340: University Abbey’s New Three-Week Rotation

UA logo - No background - CopyLast spring a small group of us here at Baylor University started doing Celtic Evening Prayer followed by board games every Tuesday night. It was an informal weekly gathering of friends. By the time summer rolled around we were mixing it up, alternating every other week between Evening Prayer and paper discussions. This community evolved into and became University Abbey. The group has grown and Evening Prayer has been expanded to include Lectio Divina, the Apostles’ Creed, informal prayer, and some more historical elements, but that alternating two-week format has remained a fixture. This past week, however, we tried something new. As I explained in last Sunday’s blog post, we set aside this past Tuesday night for a social experiment. Read more

Miniblog #339: Why Not Elevate the Conversation Instead of Highlighting Stupidity?

The truth is that I naturally assume the good majority of people are morons. For some it appears they’re wired that way but for most it appears to be a willful, self-inflicted condition. I’ve cultivated an intentional habit of giving the benefit of the doubt whenever there’s any indication there might be good reason to hope, but experience has taught me it’s wise to proceed with initial skepticism.11.In the immortal words of Dubbya, “There’s an old saying in Tennessee–I know it’s in Texas, it’s probably in Tennessee–that says fool me once, shame on… shame on you… you fool me you can’t get fooled again.” It’s not because I have a low view of people. Quite the opposite, it’s because I have a high view of their potential. I think ordinary folks are intellectually capable of a whole heckuva lot more than they’re given credit for and what is ordinarily expected of them. Read more


Miniblog #338: An Exhortation for Dealing with Hurt & Pain in This Paradoxical World

Life as a human is beautiful. Life as a human is traumatic. We’re creatures who are made in God’s image, but in all ways marred by the fall. We’re living in a period of redemptive history in which God’s Kingdom has already been inaugurated, but hasn’t yet been fully manifest. Human nature being what it is and this epoch being what it is, it’s an inevitability that we’re all going to experience the paradoxical realities of life and death.11.And also peace and conflict, grace and condemnation, hope and despair, joy and fear, rest and exhaustion. Read more

Miniblog #337: John Walton on How We Should Interpret Noah in Genesis 6-9

I haven’t seen the new Noah film nor read any movie reviews. I’ve also managed to altogether avoid the expected outraged commentary coming out of certain segments of the evangelical community. My thought is this: The last thing we need is yet another blogger contributing to the present for and against cacophony. Instead it seems wiser and more fruitful to attempt to elevate the conversation. Read more


UA Social Experiment: Why Must We Always Make an Excuse for Quality Conversation? (Miniblog #336)

American social etiquette is weird. It seems… unnatural. Is there anything more basic for what it means to be human than people conversing with one another? I mean, seriously, isn’t conversation a distinguishing feature of our species? If so, why is it that we’re always having to make excuses for why we’re going to talk? Read more


Miniblog #335: Spiritual Growth & Sustenance Is About More than Bible Reading & Prayer

Growing up in evangelical churches, I was taught Scripture reading and prayer together formed the lynchpin for a Christian’s faith. If those things were out of order, everything was. It was a simple formula for spiritual growth and sustenance. In recent years, however, I’ve come to see that things are considerably more complicated. Read more

Miniblog #334: Announcing a Significant Shift Here at “Musings of a Hardlining Moderate”

The time has come for a significant thematic shift here at Musings of a Hardlining Moderate. When this blog began back in 2009, I wrote a great deal about ideas and my cognitive life. Relatively little was written about emotions and my personal life. Somewhere along the way the focus got inverted. Over the past year, in particular, I’ve written more than a few painful posts.11.They explained why my ordination was twice cancelled at the least minute, why I’m estranged from my only brother, how childhood rape has impacted my life, what it was like to watch grandpa die in hospice care, and so forth. Epic, emotive stuff. Read more


Miniblog #333: Joy Without Peace

While I spent a month away in Minnesota and Oklahoma a number of friends, family, and mentors asked, “Do you feel joy and peace?” You want the truth? I wasn’t aware this was a possibility, but I’ve somehow managed to attain joy without peace. Read more